Ness Who?

Ness is a pseudonym (yeah no shit sherlock!) born out of a need to disguise myself on the internet and still blog away into absurdity and obscurity without it affecting my professional or personal life.

I deleted a lot of my old blog up to a point because I realised I needed to make a fresh start in my life. It involved a lot of life laundry, cleaning of my house and throwing away all of the old crap I was holding onto – physically AND emotionally. I had to do the same thing with the blog. This is a fresh start for Nessa Pink

In Brief

I am a magpie for all things shiny and I am uncontrollably drawn to anything pink and sparkly. Seriously, I am like a magpie in girl form. I am a Cancer starsign and I could literally be the poster girl for the definition as it’s me to a tee. Hard as nails on the outside but soft & fragile inside. I am very emotional, unpredictable, insecure, temperamental and a huge procrastinator, but on the flip side I am also generous & devoted, insightful, intuitive and caring. I would do anything for my friends and often put my own needs aside to help others.

I am slightly afraid of big hairy spiders and I can never find a pen! Politics bores me because the government doesn’t have a clue about how to run the country – and religion doesn’t agree with me as I refuse to be blindly led like a sheep.

I am fiercely independant and like to do things for myself (to prove it to me more than anybody else!), but I guess I am also an old fashioned romantic at heart. I like doors held open for me and chairs pulled out for me at restaurants. I like a guy to take my coat for me, offer me his jacket if I am cold, and love it when a guy surprises me for no reason at all and it doesn’t have to cost money either. In fact, commercialised romance means squat to me! That doesn’t mean I don’t love getting a card, cuddly bear and choccies on valentines day (heck I’m still a girl) but just that the little things mean more than the mass produced shite. I’d rather get a post-it stuck to the inside of my cupboard door for me to find later, a text message just to say “thinking about you” or even just cuddling up on the sofa holding hands! It’s the simple stuff that counts.

Random Stuff

• I would choose love over money any day.
• I love being in my house. Home is where I am the happiest.
• I’ve had an eating disorder and still battle the demon in my head that tells me I still need to lose weight.
• I was vegetarian for 21 years before starting to eat meat again at the end of 2008 when I left my ex.
• I hate being bored.